PARENTS WITH TEENS - Pleasant darkness

Many times, parents feel that their child's behavior is not like how they wanted it to be. Mostly people want their child to be ideal and to be same as what they want them to be. I'm not saying about all parents but I seen many parents personally. They want that everything done by them must be perfect but if children can't obey their wants, they just shout on them and show their anger instead of teaching them and explaining them.

Many times Parents always blame their child for anything they get instead of teaching them and telling them the way to do anything, they just ignore everything. Even sometimes children commit suicide because their parents are unable to understand them and they feel helpless. I can give the example of mistakes of teens nowadays, as we all know, their are a lot of news about different things happened because of children in the age of puberty where the children are unable to express themselves and need someone to solve their problems, parents must listen to them and react a little like a friend, atleast their enough behavior to let them tell everything fearlessly can save life of lots of children.

There are many reasons of children's bad behavior with their parents. Some of them are, always being blamed by parents, generation gap which creates a huge misunderstanding between them, the blind ruling of parents without understanding their children, the difference between their thoughts, less appreciation by parents, being unattached emotionally with parents.

Since, in new generation, children have bold and open thoughts but whenever they want to tell something and share something with elders, they fear about their reaction and keep it to themselves because they can't guess how will their parents take it and react on it. If you really want to understand a children, try to be frank and talk with them, give them enough time to understand you too, tell them about your childhood and appreciate them for little things so that they may understand your love. If you really love them, then show it. Share everything with them and ask them to share their problems with you too. Children always need appreciation, love and understanding.